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New Research Reveals The Surprising Reason Men Always Choose Certain Women...

...And Why They Constantly Reject or Ignore Others.

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Why Men Push Away Their Perfect Girl

Men have told Tanya that she's "amazing", "a great catch,"  "cool," and "total girlfriend material"... 

...but all their seemingly kind words just made her feel worse.

Because the cold, hard truth was:

No matter how great they SAID she was, they still weren’t CHOOSING her.

That meant these men were either lying, or there was something else wrong with her.

In any case, Tanya feared that there was something so repulsive about her that they couldn’t bring themselves to stay with her.

“It made me feel broken,” she says. “Why am I never enough for the men I really want?”

“I just want someone to choose me!

This question of what makes a man choose a certain woman (while overlooking others) has plagued women for as long as men and women have been getting together.

And science may finally have an answer.

According to new research published in the scientific journal, “Archives of Sexual Behavior”*, men don’t choose women for “logical reasons”.

Dating and Relationship Coach Clayton Max tells us:

“It’s not about checking all the boxes on a man’s list of what makes his ‘perfect girl’. And a woman can’t convince a man to want to be with her.”

In fact, Max says, when a woman tries to convince a man, pressure him, or show him how amazing she is, it’s likely to backfire

Since these behaviors signal the exact opposite of what makes a man absolutely sure a certain woman is it for him.

“The reality,” according to Max, “is that men choose women who do one thing and one thing only: they choose women who make them feel the powerful emotion of INFATUATION.

Psychologists have discovered that infatuation comes from a primal drive deep within the brain…

And in men, it’s either on or it’s off.

When a man’s infatuation instinct is ON, it doesn’t matter if a woman has any of the qualities he’s been looking for.

She could be completely "wrong" for him, but he’ll make time for her.

He’ll pack up and move to a different city for her. He’ll change careers for her.

The amazing thing about the Infatuation Instinct is that it literally TURNS OFF the part of a man’s brain concerned with anything other than making her his.

So, how does a woman activate a man’s Infatuation Instinct…

...and make him so overwhelmed with desire for her...

...that he’s willing to do anything to show her how much he wants her?

* Helen E. Fisher, Ph.D. et al, Archives of Sexual Behavior, October 2002Defining the Brain Systems of Lust, Romantic Attraction, and Attachment, Vol. 31, No. 5, (pp. 413 - 419)

5 Signs A Man’s in “Infatuation Mode”

He becomes blind to a woman’s ‘negative traits’ and can only see her positive qualities - According to a growing body of research, the infatuation instinct has predictable effects on a man.

For instance, men often become obsessed with women who don’t have any of the qualities they say they want. This is why a woman can be perfect for a man “on paper” but he still won’t choose her. (Fisher, p. 415)


He’s unable to imagine having feelings for someone else - When a man’s infatuation instinct is turned on, he develops “the inability to feel romantic passion for more than one person at a time” (Fisher, p. 415).

So even the most commitment-phobic man will find all his desire focused entirely on one woman.


He becomes moody; elated at one moment, and depressed the next - Since infatuation creates “emotional dependency on the relationship fear of rejection, and separation anxiety,” a man will be desperately afraid of losing her.

Also, his mood will go up and down depending on how much attention and security she gives him. (Fisher p. 416)


He experiences “intrusive thinking” about her - The Infatuation Instinct turns on obsessive thinking in a man. And according to research, she’ll be on his mind nearly constantly — “in many cases over 85% of waking hours” (Fisher, p. 416)


He’s willing to reorder his priorities for her - Since the infatuation drive is so overpowering, men will often “change their clothing, mannerisms, habits, or values to become more available to [her]”.


If a man complains that a certain woman doesn’t fit into his life, he’s likely not infatuated. But if he’s willing to alter his routines and habits to make her fit, he is. (Fisher, p. 417)

Want to Make Him Infatuated?
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2 Ways to Know If This Video Will Help

#1: This Video Is For Women Who Are Frustrated With Their Dating Lives

Before anything else, please note that this video is not for everyone. It reveals some harsh truths about dating and relationships that won't be easy to hear.

Based on the thousands of women who’ve watched this video (and reaped the benefits), we’ve found that this works best for specific situations. For instance, this video is for women who’ve tried reasoning with a man, acting like the “laid back, cool girl”, giving ultimatums, waiting to sleep with a new guy, or NOT waiting to sleep with him.

Also, women have found this video extremely valuable if they've played “hard to get”, or told him how his actions were affecting them - and still didn't get the attention and devotion they’d like. 

#2: This Video Is For Women Who Are Ready To Try Something New

While a lot of women are unhappy with their love lives, they’re still not willing to try something different.

There’s a saying that “we teach people how to treat us.” And while it’s not a woman’s fault how a man treats her, it is her responsibility to do something different if she’s not satisfied with the results she’s getting so far.

This isn’t about playing games or manipulating him into feeling something… It’s about accepting and working WITH the way men are wired, rather than wishing his brain was different.

The Cure to Commitment-Phobia? (Clayton Max’s Breakthrough Discovery)

Clayton was struggling to explain why men who seemed so scared of commitment with one woman, would meet another woman and propose to her within months.

It was especially confusing since it seemed to have nothing to do with a woman’s physical attractiveness, or how good a girlfriend she was.

While pouring through scientific research on the psychology of attraction late one night, he learned about The Infatuation Instinct, and how it overrides a man’s fears about making a deeper commitment.

Activating a man’s infatuation instinct has been called “the cure to commitment phobia”, since men who’ve always resisted commitment, are suddenly eager to commit to a woman once she triggers it.

His programs and free videos have helped thousands of women flip the dynamic with a man they’re into, by showing them exactly what to do and say to trigger a man’s infatuation instinct

In his free video, he gives away the three psychological keys to activating it.

So Clayton Decided To Create This Video To Show Women How Easy It Can Be To Make A Man Infatuated

Learn Why Men Tend To Flip-Flop In Love...
Learn Why Men Tend To Flip-Flop In Love...

...and why they often have one foot out the door even when they say they’re committed!

Find Out The 3 Things Women Do So They're Always “In Control” With Men
Find Out The 3 Things Women Do So They're Always “In Control” With Men

Discover what compels the men in their lives to chase them, obsess over them, and become desperate to {quote-sign}lock them down{quote-sign}...

Discover How Some Women Use The “Halo Effect”
Discover How Some Women Use The “Halo Effect”

This makes men idealize them and overlook or explain away all their flaws...

Understand the crucial link between UNCERTAINTY and infatuation...
Understand the crucial link between UNCERTAINTY and infatuation...

...and why having too much control in a relationship makes a man feel suffocated and uncertain...

Learn the “Investment Effect”
Learn the “Investment Effect”

Find out why doing too much for a man makes it impossible for him to feel infatuated - and why a woman must get him to put in effort in order if she wants him to feel the powerful emotions of infatuation...

Discover the key role that CURIOSITY plays
Discover the key role that CURIOSITY plays

This makes a man obsess about a woman when she’s not around… and it's a CRUCIAL factor that makes him fall for her!

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